 Most people realize that just wanting a baby doesn't mean you are mentally,
emotionally, or physically prepared to have one. Nor does the desire to have a
baby necessarily mean you will be a good parent. Many couples and singles
struggle with this decision as they consider their life situation, lifestyle,
and how a child will forever change their life. Enter THE PARENTHOOD DECISION,
the first book to take a clear-eyed look at the issues, the positive and
pitfalls, that all prospective parents face.
"Emotional, physical, and mental readiness for parenting; willingness
to accept permanent lifestyle changes; and emotional ability to provide a
nurturing environment are the three major qualities involved in the parenthood
decision. Short questionnaires throughout the text help prospective parents
assess honestly and in detail whether they are ready, willing, and able to take
on parenting. Answering such questions as Why do I want to have a child? Do I
have the energy to be a good parent? and What will I give up? is intended to get
prospective parents to grasp the qualities needed for successful parenting. For
those who must acknowledge, however unwillingly, that they are not prepared for
the sacrifices demanded by child rearing, Engel also offers comforting
strategies for deciding whether to wait until the time is right or to forgo
having children altogether. Her knowing, empathic style further assists
prospective parents in deeply exploring personal qualities and concerns."
Booklist, May 15, 1998
Book History
Paperback - Doubleday, New York, Spring 1998
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Booklist review
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Article and quiz in the Oregonian, "Are You Ready to
Breed?"
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Review Dallas Morning News
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National radio campaign
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Interviewed for article in Parents magazine
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