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    Loving Him Without Losing You

    Barbara De Angelis New York Times bestselling author of Secrets About Life Every Woman Should Know and Are You the One for Me?
    Loving Him without Losing You is a powerful and practical guide to relationships that every woman should read!

    Susan Page author of How One of You Can Bring the Two of You Together and If I'm So Wonderful, Why Am I Still Single?

    Again, Beverly Engel has identified a widespread problem and provided women with wise guidelines for bursting through it. She writes with compassion and insight. If you think you are a ‘disappearing woman’, you will drink in this book as if it were a health-giving elixir. It is!

    Salli Rasberry coauthor of Living Your Life Out Loud

    Groundbreaking, provocative, and substantial, this book will light the fire of every woman who seeks true intimacy and strength.

    Michael Gurian author of The Good Son and A Fine Young Man

    This is a book of depth and power. I highly recommend it not only to women who lose themselves in their relationships with men but to the parents of adolescent girls who need to be taught how to view themselves as valuable beings separate from their relationships with men and boys.

    Randi Kreger coauthor of Stop Walking on Eggshells

    When I was in college, we were all Disappearing Women. We didn’t even think about it; that’s just the way things were. Some of us grew out of it; some didn’t. If we all had had this book, our lives might have turned out much differently. Buy this book so you can become your authentic self.

    Maxine Schnall founder and executive director of Wives' Self Help, the first marital hotline in America, and author of Limits and Every Woman Can Be Adored

    This remarkably helpful book offers new insights into why so many women surrender their individuality in relationships. Its strategies for relating fulfillingly can rescue even the most vulnerable woman from sacrificing herself on the altar of love. Don’t wait until your hair is on fire to read it.

    Evelyn Streit Cohen, M.S., M.A. marriage and family therapist and coauthor of Couple Fits: How to Live with the Person You Love

    This book clearly explains why so many women find themselves in fantasy marriages and romances with real men. Beverly Engel urges women to think, evaluate, and risk rejection before they repeatedly jump into the same trap. In a gentle voice, she offers commonsense guidelines for telling the truth, learning to trust perceptions, and using solitude.

    Bradley Gerstman, Esq, Christopher Pizzo, CPA, Rich Seldes, M.D. authors of What Men Want and Marry Me!
    A terrific book, written with authority and sensitivity to men as well as women–full of useful, fresh information.

    Book History

    • Hardcover — John Wiley and Sons, 2000
    • Paperback – John Wiley and Sons, 2001
    • Featured in article in Cosmopolitan magazine (Oct.2001 issue)
    • Major coast to coast tour and media campaign
    • Spanish rights sold
    • Turkish rights sold
    • Featured in Psychology Today – Ask Dr. E.
    • Woman to Woman TV show
    • Straight From the Heart TV show
    • Article WomenCentral.MSN.com
    • Interview Wisdom Radio
    • Rated as one of the top 81 Codependency Bestsellers
    • Chinese World rights sold
    • Greek rights sold.
    • Complex Chinese rights sold
    • Spanish rights sold
    • Turkish rights sold
    • Latina Magazine, Nov. 2008
    • Oprah.com¬†article, August 2009