Loving Him without Losing You is a powerful and practical guide to relationships that every woman should read!

Again, Beverly Engel has identified a widespread problem and provided women with wise guidelines for bursting through it. She writes with compassion and insight. If you think you are a ‘disappearing woman’, you will drink in this book as if it were a health-giving elixir. It is!

Groundbreaking, provocative, and substantial, this book will light the fire of every woman who seeks true intimacy and strength.

This is a book of depth and power. I highly recommend it not only to women who lose themselves in their relationships with men but to the parents of adolescent girls who need to be taught how to view themselves as valuable beings separate from their relationships with men and boys.

When I was in college, we were all Disappearing Women. We didn’t even think about it; that’s just the way things were. Some of us grew out of it; some didn’t. If we all had had this book, our lives might have turned out much differently. Buy this book so you can become your authentic self.

This remarkably helpful book offers new insights into why so many women surrender their individuality in relationships. Its strategies for relating fulfillingly can rescue even the most vulnerable woman from sacrificing herself on the altar of love. Don’t wait until your hair is on fire to read it.

This book clearly explains why so many women find themselves in fantasy marriages and romances with real men. Beverly Engel urges women to think, evaluate, and risk rejection before they repeatedly jump into the same trap. In a gentle voice, she offers commonsense guidelines for telling the truth, learning to trust perceptions, and using solitude.

A terrific book, written with authority and sensitivity to men as well as women–full of useful, fresh information.